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PRIMARY SCHOOL (7-12 YEARS)

This is a time of learning and change. As your child grows up and goes to school it is important for you to remember that you are still the number one influence on your child’s development.

It’s never too early to start to positively shape your child’s responsible and safe future drinking behaviour.

“Research shows that by delaying the onset of drinking until at least the age of 15 years, the more likely your children will become responsible drinkers in later life.” Dr Andrew Rochford, Accident and Emergency, Sydney Royal North Shore Hospital
“At this age, children no longer blindly accept what parents say, they’re likely to question more and get very upset if our words and actions don’t mesh or make sense.” Dr John Irvine, child and family psychologist.

How you drink will also have a big impact on how your children choose to drink or not drink when they are older. Although they may be many years away from their first drink, they’re absorbing the way you and other influential people in their lives drink and act around alcohol. Children form their attitudes about drinking long before they ever have a drink themselves; from their most important role model…you.

What you do What your children learn
Drink to get drunk  Getting drunk is normal and the best way to have a good time
 Drink alcohol as a way to relax  You can’t relax without alcohol
Drink alcohol at every social occasion. You can’t socialise with friends unless you are drinking
Have a go at other people who don’t drink There’s something wrong with people who don’t drink alcohol
Drink when you are feeling depressed, sad, angry, frustrated or bored Alcohol is the answer to life’s problems and difficulties
Drink every night      People should be drinking every day

 

How do I be DrinkWise?

Drinking wisely means being a good role model for your children (6-12 years). Here are some useful tips:

  • Drink responsibly; if you drink responsibly, your children will learn that this is the right way to drink.
  • Convey appropriate attitudes; glorifying or laughing about drunken behaviour in yourself or others gives your child the wrong message.
  • Use news events, TV episodes, movies or personal events as opportunities to discuss what appropriate or inappropriate behaviour is.
  • Openly discuss drinking with your child − ask them if they think they will drink when they are older and why. Their answers may surprise both of you.
  • It is important to communicate with your child. Children who feel able to communicate and talk openly with their parents about a range of issues are more likely not to drink or drink in moderation as teenagers and adults, than those who do not have a strong relationship with their parents.
  • Be aware of their peer influences on your child’s attitudes towards drinking.
  • Talk about alcohol with your child. Messages about how you regard alcohol and its appropriate use will stay with them for years to come.

Of course, if you have particular concerns regarding your own drinking, its effects on you or your family, consult your General Practitioner or another health professional.

For further information, view our expert advice to parents.



 
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